The 8 Stages of Domestic Homicide

As part of our ongoing work on the prevention of gender based violence, we were pleased, that in February of this year, Rosie Lewis from the University of Hertfordshire hosted a webinar for the Foundation on Identifying Stalking and The 8 Stages of Domestic Homicide (Homicide Timeline).


The Homicide Timeline developed by Dr. Jane Monckton Smith, is set out below and maps the progression of abusive, coercive, and controlling relationships towards murder.


This framework is designed to help professionals and the public identify high-risk situations and intervene before a homicide occurs, shifting the view from "crimes of passion" to a predictable, planned process.


Stage 1: Pre-relationship

History The perpetrator has a history of stalking or abuse, often showing a pattern of controlling behaviour with previous partners.


Stage 2: Relationship Development (The "Whirlwind")

The relationship moves very quickly from the initial meeting to becoming serious and intense.


Stage 3: Coercive Control

The relationship is dominated by the perpetrator, who controls the victim's life and behaviour.


Stage 4: Trigger

An event threatens the perpetrator's control, such as a planned separation, financial issues, or illness.


Stage 5: Escalation

Controlling behaviour increases in intensity or frequency, including stalking, threats of suicide, or increased violence.


Stage 6: Change in Thinking

The perpetrator changes their mindset, deciding that the situation is unforgivable, often feeling rejected, humiliated, or vengeful.


Stage 7: Planning

The perpetrator actively prepares for homicide, such as buying a weapon, stalking the victim, or establishing a timeline.



Stage 8: Homicide

The homicide is committed, which may include the suicide of the perpetrator.


At the Foundation, we believe that building healthy relationships starts with education and at an early age. We have developed resources for Primary and Secondary students which can be accessed here - www.stevesinnottfoundation.org.uk/resources

Steve Sinnott • March 2, 2026

What happens when creativity, young people, education and community come together?

By Ann Beatty • August 25, 2026
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Alfa Liv Kalkil - Math concepts for popular literacy classes in Haiti

By Chancy Jak • August 25, 2026
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Five Days, 64 Educators, One Renewed Mission

By Marie Antoinette Corr • August 10, 2026
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